Relationships?Communication? The Imporatnce of What We Say ...

?What we have here is a failure to communicate.?
Strother Martin, Paul Newman ? Cool Hand Luke

Relationships don?t suffer from a failure to communicate.? They suffer from an ineffective system and poorly crafted tools designed to derail communication, and give people not what they say they want, but instead, what they fear the most about themselves and others.

The truth is we?re constantly communicating be it through our energy, non-verbally, the actual content that pours out of our mouth?s and our body language.? This overall data picture is then interpreted by others based on our choice of words, tone, and the inflection in our voice. The other person?s filter and projection (already stored content in their conscious and subconscious mind) determines if they?re going to respond (conversation) or react (confrontation). It?s in these exchanges or potential trigger points where relationships break down because the what, when, where and how to say it are mostly unknown, or secondary to the desire to be right.

I liken my role as a relationship coach to that of a swing coach in golf.? You?re already a pro in my book.? You?ve got a great short-game but your shanking the ball to the right off the tee.? In this case I watch and listen to what you?re doing and saying, and then offer my State of The Heart Communication tools and techniques to help you get things straightened out and moving forward again. If the system you have in place to communicate is not getting you what you desire then you need to change it. The only real failure in communications is when we give up on the hope and possibility that things can be better.

Mitch Newman, M.A. is The Relationship Coach

He can be reached at mitch@therelationshipcoachisin.com

Source: http://www.promoteyourpassionnow.com/relationships-communication-imporatnce/

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